Por dónde comenzamos cuando hablamos de trabajar en nuestro carácter? No es tan fácil definir ésto, ya que a veces nos damos cuenta de que nos hemos dejado estar durante mucho tiempo, tal vez toda la vida. No te desesperes. Lo importante, como ya te lo he dicho antes, es comenzar, y eso ya lo has hecho al comenzar a leer estas líneas.

Vamos a comenzar haciendo un ejercicio de autoconocimiento bien sencillo: Làpiz y papel en mano harás dos listas, una lista de tus virtudes y otra de los detalles a mejorar. No me gusta llamarlos defectos porque considero que todo es «perfectible», mejorable.

De paso, te sugiero desde ya dedicar un archivo de tu ordenador, o, mejor aún, un cuaderno físico para realizar las tareas que encontrarás en este blog. De esa manera podrás visualizar tu progreso a medida que avanzamos en nuestro trabajo personal.

Probablemente la tarea de hoy sea más sencilla de explicar que de hacer, es cierto, pero te aseguro que vale la pena. Tómate el tiempo que necesites, elige un lugar tranquilo y piensa con detenimiento y sin distracciones:

¿Cuáles son esas cosas en las que te destacas? Piensa en lo que te dicen familiares, amigos y personas con quienes te relacionas a diario. ¿Qué es lo que mas valoran de tí? Muchas veces no tomamos en cuenta o en serio esos comentarios. No valoramos lo suficiente esos elogios porque solemos concentrarnos más en lo que no tenemos, en las virtudes de otros. Presta atención y anota lo que los demás valoran de tu desempeño y de tu persona.

¿Cuales son aquellas actitudes, acciones, hábitos que te traen problemas en el logro de tus metas, en tus relaciones interpersonales, en tu rendimiento en el trabajo o estudios? Esos son los «detalles a mejorar». Aunque no nos gusta reconocer estos puntos flacos, es necesario tomar nota de cada una de ellos específicamente para trabajar en los mismos hasta superarlos.

Para hacer ambas listas es necesario ser humildes. Ya sea para reconocer nuestras virtudes o las cosas a mejorar, es necesario un reconocimiento de lo que nos gusta y de lo que no nos gusta, de lo que nos sirve, y de lo que no nos sirve de nosotros mismos. Ambas listas deben ser trabajadas, pero para poder hacerlo, lo primero es identificarlas al detalle con actitud de humildad reconociendo que todo es mejorable, perfectible.

Bien, te dejo haciendo la tarea. Mañana continuamos.

«Todo lo puedo en Cristo, que me fortalece».

Filipenses 4: 13

Feliz noche.

Lore Burgos-Psicóloga


Lore Burgos

Mi nombre es Lidia Lorena Burgos. Soy Licenciada en Psicología General. De nacionalidad argentina. Felizmente casada hace 26 años y madre de 4 hijas maravillosas de 26, 22, 18 y 14 años. Actualmente resido en la Provincia de Neuquén, Argentina. Me apasiona escribir artículos, trabajar en radio, y brindar charlas educativas a la comunidad en mi área. Mi motivación es el servicio y mi lema "Todo lo puedo en Cristo que me fortalece". Filipenses 4: 13

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Las creencias de un cristiano no nos hacen una mejor persona, ni alguien diferente, la forma en que nos comportamos con los demás, sí.
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