Reconozco que personalmente me choca un poco escuchar la palabra «lástima» relacionada a un ser humano.

No tengas lástima de la gente. La lástima no ayuda a nadie. Al contrario, la lástima arruina a las personas. Por lástima ves al otro como un pobre desvalido incapaz de ayudarse a sí mismo. Esa lástima te lleva a ayudar de manera incorrecta haciendo cosas que la persona puede hacer por sí misma.

La compasión en cambio te lleva a ponerte en su lugar y tratarlo con dignidad, como te gustaría ser tratado. Desde esa perspectiva puedes ayudarlo a ayudarse a sí mismo, y a reafirmar su propia conciencia y capacidad de superación personal dándole una nueva identidad.

Por lástima ves a quien necesita hoy de ti como un eterno necesitado. La compasión te lleva a verlo como Jesús, que veía a las personas como podían llegar a ser.

¿Lástima o compasión?

Tú eliges.

Lore Burgos-Psicóloga


Lore Burgos

Mi nombre es Lidia Lorena Burgos. Soy Licenciada en Psicología General. De nacionalidad argentina. Felizmente casada hace 26 años y madre de 4 hijas maravillosas de 26, 22, 18 y 14 años. Actualmente resido en la Provincia de Neuquén, Argentina. Me apasiona escribir artículos, trabajar en radio, y brindar charlas educativas a la comunidad en mi área. Mi motivación es el servicio y mi lema "Todo lo puedo en Cristo que me fortalece". Filipenses 4: 13

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